On Mindfulness The Path And The Practices

On Mindfulness The Path And The Practices

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Mindfulness offers practical ways to find focus, calm and joy in everyday living, and, when practiced with regularity, can be utterly life-changing. Like a super power that allows you to deliberately direct the beam of your attention instead of being tossed around by racing thoughts and turbulent emotions, mindfulness enables one to choose their own mindset and shift how to relate to experience so that stress is lessened and happiness increased. Many people think of mindfulness as something to add to an already full schedule. Or a special skill that only a few people can learn. Or something that only works for people with a baseline personality for being calm. Instead, practicing mindfulness is about learning, bit by bit, how to train your attention to stay in the present instead of ruminating over the past or lurching into the future. Mindfulness is the awareness that arises when we direct our attention on purpose toward our inner experience, toward others, and toward the relationship we have with the environment around us. But more than just focusing the mind, it’s about one’s mindset — how you view and hold the world. A mindful mindset is open, receptive, accepting and compassionate. Beginning starts with noticing your natural tendency to judge, assume you already know something, resist what life brings or worry about what is out of your own control — behaviors that everyone grapples with.

There’s ample scientific evidence about the power of mindfulness. Since the first steps in mindfulness research in the early 1990’s, the number of studies have increased exponentially. Research proves that you can change your default mental patterns through repeated practice, a concept called neuroplasticity. The repetition of mental training in effect rewires your brain with new neural pathways that incline you to respond to situations in more skillful ways than automatically reacting out of habit. The amazing piece to all this is that you end up in the driver’s seat of shaping your brain and your life through deliberate practice — conscious creating — instead of unwittingly wiring your brain through the influence of cultural norms, one’s family of origin, or old habits.

Specifically, research on the benefits of meditation — an integral part of the practice of mindfulness— has exploded in recent years. Researchers have found that mindful meditation — maintaining a moment by moment receptive awareness of our thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations and surrounding environment, using a set object of focus — increases attentional control, emotional regulation and self-awareness. Yet for all the research showing the benefits of mindfulness in treating such conditions as anxiety, depression, and chronic pain, researchers still don’t know exactly how consciousness woks. “That’s been the frontier for us, understanding the nuances of the mechanism and then developing targeted treatment,” says Judson Brewer, director of research for the Center of Mindfulness at the University of Massachusetts Medical School. When traversing this territory, I always like to go to my teacher Shinzen’s take. “After nearly half a century of practice, teaching and research in the field,” says Shinzen, “when I hear the word Mindfulness… I don’t think of one thing. I think of eight things. Mindfulness the word, the awareness, the practices, the path, the translation, the fad, the shadow, and the possible revolution.”

For the not-so-quick-and-dirty, go here. For our purposes now, we’ll close with Shinny’s take on the practice as well as the path, the mindful take referring to the systematic exercises that elevate a person’s base level of awareness. In Shinzen’s careful, calculated usage, we refer to these as mindful practices, or more fully, mindful awareness practices (MAPS). Two of the most common MAPS are Noting and Body Scanning, both techniques developed in Burma in the early 20th century and forming the base of Shinzen’s Body-Image-Talk and See-Hear-Feel techniques. These being the practices themselves, the Path refers to the ability to dramatically elevate one’s base level of mindful awareness through a well-organized regimen of mindful awareness practices, similar to the way one’s physical strength can be elevated through exercise. This ever-sharpening arrow in one’s quiver is a tool of immense power and general application that can be utilized to improve just about every aspect of human happiness. Consider joining our Winter Meditation Retreat Weekend February 21st -23rd or monthly meditation class in the upcoming new year to boost your power and practice.

!Novateus Solar's Think Tank

!Novateus Solar's Think Tank

“Well me and my Uncle went ridin’ down South Colorado West Texas bound we stopped over in Sante Fe, That Day…”

“Well me and my Uncle went ridin’ down South Colorado West Texas bound we stopped over in Sante Fe, That Day…”

South Bend, Indiana - the home of mayor Peter Paul Montgomery Buttigieg aka Pete as well the mighty Tyler Kanczuzewski aka TKO - beckoned from 60 miles southeast of South Haven last week. And hearing the call, we answered. Mayor Pete as you may know is in a tight, four-way contest in the New Hampshire Democratic primary. Tyler, as you may not know, is a friend, student, and growing force of nature leading the marketing and sustainability practices at !novateus Solar, a progressive South Bend solar developer delivering services the world over. Having worked with Tyler over the past year one-on-one conveying Vipassana meditation techniques, we were both eager to share the practice at a Friday Think Tank at his company’s South Bend Headquarters. “A Think Tank has the ability to bring a group together to collaborate and collectively transform ideas and solutions to become something bigger, brighter and hopefully more brilliant,” illuminates Tyler. “Mixing imaginations creates something magical and often unexpected.”

As to the unexpected, this particular Think Tank took an entirely new approach to Thought itself, studying how the act actually occurs. We gathered in the !novateus conference area, an open-space shared with neighboring Logistick, innovators of freight securement systems and co-company formed by founder and visionary Tom Kanczuzewski, Tyler’s Dad. I pointed out to our small group that the spirit of the founding Father’s hope - to create an organization in which his own workers thrive while at the same time making the world a better place - is what meditation and spiritual purification is all about. We covered meditation’s foundational ideas along with the four skills developed by its practice — concentration, relaxation, insights into life and death and unconditional love. Then we practiced, taking part in a 20-minute guided Vippasana meditation, utilizing our breath and body sensations, our mind’s visual component together with it’s verbal or auditory output in order to See, Hear and Feel our inner world. In doing so, we experienced the taste of purification, an untangling of sensory experience that offers a tangible tranquility and sense of relaxation, the blessed states that have inspired a modern Mindfulness movement.

As to feedback, for a first-pass, the reports were off the charts. “That was awesome,” expressed more than one participant. A personal highlight was a post-tank exchange with an attendee and fellow snowboarder. We agreed that first being strapped to a plank felt awkward and the learning curve steep, but in a flash you were over the hump and once you got it, its all you wanted to do. “Same thing here”, I offered. If you were in attendance, you too may have felt the energized connectivity, the unspoken but ever-present vibe amongst people practicing together in community . “I encourage everyone to consider meditation practice to connect with life in a deeper, more meaningful way”, expresses Tyler, with a watchful eye on a healthy, sustainable future and awake to the responsibility to the earth’s future generations. “Paul and his work with Higher Haven has truly changed my life. I am now in touch with a deeper part of myself, which allows me to better connect with others in my life, as well as Mother Earth.” We’ll be offering regular meditation classes and monthly retreats in the new year as well as reaching out to other companies and corporations. If you’d like to discuss how to make your business more personal and employees more empowered, Let’s Connect.

Happy Birthday To You ~ Sarkes Sam Tootalian

Happy Birthday To You ~ Sarkes Sam Tootalian

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Happy Belated at this post’s point, but a day in The D had me realizing that my Father Sarkes would be celebrating his 91st Birthday on Wednesday of this week. As you may see from the stone, he came into the world on November 20th, 1928, and departed May 7th, 2006. He was 100% Armenian, spoke the language fluently, and was a veteran of The Korean War, hence the flag. A sunny, warm afternoon after some intense, early winter Midwest storms had me visiting and enjoying lunch out at my Dad’s site. Sam as he was known to the business world enjoyed Chipotle, the maker of Mission-style burritos, I think in part because of his love for their Barbacoa Burritos as well as Chipotle Mexican Grill Incorporated stock. I leave food out for Spirits, understanding the ancestors appreciate the gesture and acknowledgment, and in their ways, reciprocate. Without bodies needing sustenance, they still recall their time in the material world and find the essence of food and offerings pleasing.

I sent this pic to my sister Debbie, who informed me a Mass was being held in our Father’s honor yesterday at 9 a.m. She passed over an excerpt from the Bible read at the funeral of my Father’s Mother, Emily Tootalian, my Armenian Grandmother, on October 26th, 1994. Psalm 90 - Thanksgiving for Deliverance from Death. “I will extol Thee O Lord. for Thou hast lifted me up. And has not let my enemies rejoice over me. O Lord my God, I cried to Thee for Help, and Thou didst Heal me.” Truth. One thing for certain about being on the Spiritual Path is that your relationships are grounds for incredible growth. Reflecting on the challenges of being my Father’s son, I realize now how I’m coming to terms with a situation that called me to rise up and wrestle with Life, meeting that test with every ounce of courage I could muster. And ultimately how Good it was for me.

Once you begin taking possession of the keys to the locks on the invisible chains of the material world, things get… kinda funny in a synchronous way. Just as I bid Sarkes adieu and hopped in my truck, I recalled how, in his sixties, Sark developed a love for Jimmy Buffet. S. Sam, of all people, and I hope all his cronies know this - actually became an old Parrot Head, the commonly used nickname for fans of the singer, and as far as I know attended more than one show. Apparently, that’d make me a Parakeet or ‘Keet, the moniker for younger fans or children of Parrotheads. I found this all so funny, I tuned in to channel 24 on Sirius Satellite radio, The Margaritaville station, hearing the song Fruitcakes for the first time, Buffet having a ball singing of all of humanity’s imperfections: “The cosmic bakers took us out of the oven a little too early”. When I heard the verse below, referencing religion and human fallibility, I found it all hilarious and so Heyoka, I cracked up all the way Home. God Bless my Dad’s Spirit~ Happy Birthday Sark.

“Religion! Religion! Oh, there’s a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning. Here we go now. Alright, Altar boys - Mea Culpa Mea Culpa Mea Maxima Culpa Mea Culpa Mea Culpa Mea Maxima Culpa.

Where’s the church, who took the steeple?
Religion’s in the hands of some crazy-ass people.
Television preachers with bad hair and dimples,
The God’s honest truth is, it’s not that simple.
It’s the Buddhist in you, it’s the Pagan in me,
It’s the Muslim in him, she’s Catholic ain’t she?
It’s the born-again look, it’s the WASP and the Jew,
Tell me what’s goin on, man I ain’t got a Clue.”