Ceremonially Closing Out 2023 To Open Wide the New Year 2024

Ceremonially Closing Out 2023 To Open Wide the New Year 2024

I have a friend Chuck who edits my blog posts. Being one of my best buds, my Kolas, Chuck is also a Christadelphian, inspiring some very colorful content conversations. I’m looking to Chucker mostly for typo corrections, but hope he’ll weigh in with an occasional “Good One!!” which Chuck is known to do, when he’s feeling it. Lately Chuck’s back has been hurting, so when I asked him how he was and for his review of the former post, his response was, “A little disjointed, but OK.” I knew he meant my writing but replied: “Your back? Or the post?” I say that jokingly (tôi đùa), with the hope that after a Fall retreat season that proved to be incredibly healing — and incredibly busy — we’ll find time now in our off-season to refine this space a bit, crafting some clearer, more consistent communiqués, to keep in touch while we’re away.

Alas, we’re still here, now, so Chuc Mung Nam Moi(!) Happy New Year 2024. I’m doing my beloved Teacher Shinzen Young’s Year-End/Year-Beginning Retreat from home this year and have no business currently being on-line typing this sentence. Xin loi (sorry) that we never quite put together our promised Holiday Silent Night/Holy Night gathering — look for that evening of calm brightness in December 2024. But after laying low for a very quiet Christmas on the farm. we’re planning some standout new classes and retreats for the new year and should have the schedule up within the next week or two, with scheduling well into summer. Quarterly Noble Silence Meditation Retreat Weekends, our monthly Way of The Contrary Ceremonial overnight, some new offerings for both new and experienced meditators, and a bit of time for more personal lessons and visits.

Soon, you, too, might take in the backwards teaching above, as it appeared to the November Way of the Contrary attendees. What does the lightning bolt on the side of a Heyoka’s mask represent? “With these eyes I see, with this nose I smell, and with this mouth — I tell the truth.” While it may seem the truth hurts or confronts when looked at from an uninformed perspective, held correctly, it can set you free. Whatever does this mean? According to the November tribe of Ceremonial attendees, sensations of Sunday morning liberation, similar to what some folks feel in church, had participants experiencing a host of positive, individual feelings, then sharing them collectively. From moving toward nature and away from institutionalized medicine, to experiencing real, natural, emotional healing, rooting more into one’s heart, finding one’s personal healing space, a sense of inner, energized calm, a deeper forgiveness for others and oneself, and a sense of downshifting to a more comfortable coasting speed. What would a deep healing, a true letting go, and acquiring an empowered ability to turn things around in your own life look like for you? How might you feel? What shifts or changes would you then make, taking possession of your life in new way?

We’ll turn it over to Tanya regarding her Fall visit to The Higher Haven, and look forward to seeing you this Spring — Toksha. "As I entered the retreat, I immediately felt at peace. No 'loud' signs, only beautiful art among the wooded drive that gave hints that you are in the right place ~ a true Sanctuary. The time spent here unfolded gently, like turning the pages of a great book ~ quietly, with pause and reflection, giving way to great conversation and connections. Paul is an excellent host whose passion for indigenous knowledge and healing and traditional ways of holistic health are deeply felt and admired. I will be back." ~ TVR

The Word On Our Fall Noble Silence Meditation Retreat Weekend

The Word On Our Fall Noble Silence Meditation Retreat Weekend

Happy Halloween! “Every day is Halloween, isn’t it? For some of us,” said Director Tim Burton. Halloween is a special harvest time in the rural Midwest and especially here, marking the 9th year and 3,285th day and night we’ve resided on our farm in South Haven, Michigan, USA. Over that ten years, we’ve come to don a Ceremonial mask monthly in the service of healing others, and are delighted to wrap up an absolutely off-the-charts October retreat month, with so many developments even RoZie my dog and I could barely keep up. And RoZie runs like a deer, being a Hungarian Vizsla and one of the world’s fastest breeds. Saluki who knewki? Apparently not winning, placing or showing, but coming in 4th at a very respectable 40 m-p-h, as I like to say, she does come in a lil’ hot. She certainly can be your best pal, but jury is out or perhaps more training called for as to asking anything of her. Regardless, you’ll love her, and the feelings of unconditional adoration will most assuredly be returned.

Before this becomes an ad for my sweet sidekick, also known as The Higher Haven’s Rose, let’s pound our wetlands wooded pathway back a few weeks to our Fall Noble Silence Meditation Retreat Weekend. We’ll be working out our Winter schedule and offering some Noble Silence Meditation Retreats (NSMRs) in the Spring of 2024, but for now, there’s still a chance to take in our NSMR’s main teaching at this Saturday’s Meditation + Mindfulness 101 Class. And we’ll pretty much guarantee that if you’re willing to do a little work, you’ll acquire a mini-taste of spiritual purification, a similar experience reported on by new students Brooke and Shelley below. Join us this weekend for one of 2023’s final teachings, watch for our 2024 scheduling that includes our new Winter Zen Walk Workshop — with a sneak preview boardwalk photo above — and more on RoZie’s All Souls Day shenanigans all coming soon.

"We can't stress how much this weekend meant to us. What an amazing stay. For the first time, we felt the positive effects of sitting meditation, and feel it's a great re-start in achieving balance and reconnecting with our spiritual selves. We're both interested in coming again, and have shared with friends who we think would benefit from and enjoy this type of experience. Thanks to Paul — although this phrase doesn't even begin to convey our feelings on it — whose energy helped create this experience. We both loved our time at The Higher Haven, will continue telling everyone what a great time we had, and are looking forward to future teachings!  - Brooke + Shelley

Our September Way of the Contrary Ceremonial Weekend

Our September Way of the Contrary Ceremonial Weekend

Everything about this retreat exceeded my expectations. The grounds are tranquil and the guest house provided an opportunity for peace and community. I enjoyed the casual but powerful experience. There was time for relaxation and there was also opportunity for deep growth and learning. The weekend was very healing. Our group even committed to returning together next year, because we found so much inspiration participating in the Ceremony together! Paul offered us a rich opportunity to share, learn, and connect. And he is a terrific host, practitioner, and storyteller!” ~ Gina C. A very sincere Pilamaye or word of thanks to our early September Ceremonial Crew, the beautiful, brave people pictured above who came together seeking all that is good and best within themselves and apparently found it. They even vowed to return next September, a commitment I like the sound of, distant drum sounds rising on the crisp, clean, country air. Whenever I grab my dog Rosalita I shout “Group Hug!”, and the entire weekend ended up feeling like one big, shared, energetic embrace. Wopila

Per your requests, we’ll be posting several 2024 retreats soon, and will only offer this Ceremonial Weekend a few more times in 2023 — the October Pumpkin Lodge being quite full, with a pre-Thanksgiving gathering the November 18th weekend and a final December Lodge the weekend of December 9th. But if the raw, healing energy of a primitive purification Ceremony isn’t exactly your thing, consider the equally comforting, healing practice of finding and fostering your our own inner stillness at our upcoming Fall Noble Silence Meditation Retreat Weekend. We’re excited too, that we’re shaking up our normal Retreat Break to offer a Holiday Silent Night and Winter Zen Walk Workshop. God will surely be in the details to come.